I don't believe God dropped you off and said "Here's life, it's gonna be easy. Have fun"
I don't believe anyone told you it wouldn't hurt when you fell. That you wouldn't hesitate to open up to people, when your heart was previously broken. That you would never fight with your parents, and siblings. That every relationship you had would be perfect. That your best friends would always be there for you, no matter what. That when you told someone your secrets, they wouldn't go tell everyone else. That people wouldn't take your spot in someones life. That it would be easy.
Though it isn't easy, you have to keep in mind the big picture.
That God dropped you off to a family that would be one of your biggest support systems throughout your life. That when you fell and it left a scar, that scar says "it may have hurt like a mother.. but i survived." That when you hesitate to open up to people, the one person will come along that you will never question opening up to, because you know they are the one. That when you fought with your parents and siblings, it would make you realize what you have, and what you wish to never loose. That every relationship would teach you, and reveal a new part of yourself you had never met before. That God would give you a new relationship when you need it most, when the person you thought was your best friend, proves they weren't. That you learn who you can trust, and who you shouldn't. That there is a reason why someone was only apart of your past, and your future contains new relationships, lessons, and memories.
That it wouldn't be easy, but it would be worth it.